friends with benifits

[finalcloudwalker]

i think friends with benefits is really wrong,cuz people should be in relationships and should never just do one night stands or have a friend with benefits cu[z i]t doesn't benefit anyone in alot of ways cuz that perso\n doesn't really care as a boyfriend/girlfriend will.
whats your opinion on this topic and why?

[rinabeana]

i think friends with benefits is really wrong,cuz people should be in relationships and should never just do one night stands or have a friend with benefits cu[z i]t doesn't benefit anyone in alot of ways cuz that perso\n doesn't really care as a boyfriend/girlfriend will.
whats your opinion on this topic and why?
While i think friends with benefits is a stupid idea, I don't think its wrong. To each his own and i also don't think that you should never have a one night stand, while i'm not into casual sex with random strangers if thats what floats your boat then go have all the casual sex with random strangers. Who am i to tell you its wrong?

[Darren]

Well personally i don't believe that it's wrong but it isn't right either.

It doesn't really matter if you're in a relationship or not these days for sex, although it isn't exactly glamorous either. Being friends with benifits must prove that the two people (or more) are close enough to share their bodies like that, it isn't really a one night stand if it happens more than once.

Some people don't really like relationships either but still find the need for intimacy so of course having a friend with benifits would be ideal. Personally i'd rather have a friend with benifits that an actual one night stand, atleast then you have some actual emotions towards that person and if one of them is in love with the other then it's their own fault if they aren't in a relationship. The other person should announce their love towards the friend, perhaps the friend feels the same way?

[Katy]

I agree. I mean, i have a friend with benefits.. but we share a lot of the same feelings towards each other. He recently told me that he loved me and i said that i loved him as well, because thats how i truly felt. so my friend with benefits might turn into something more than i or he could of ever hoped for. I dont think its wrong, but its not the best decision ive made. However, i did get a future relationship out of it and im proud of who he is.

[addi3x]

I had a friend with benefits before I met my boyfriend. My friend and I were completely comfortable with each other, and we kind of used each other to test things out that we wanted to do. Although we never had intercourse, we did many physical things together, and in a way it brought us closer because we learned that we could trust each other more than anyone else. To this day, he is still my best friend, and we thank each other every day for the experiences we had.

I understand how you may think it doesn't make sense, and I understand how you think it is wrong, but I also have do somewhat disagree, just because of my experience with the matter.

(:

[Vampi]

I USED to think it was the most horrid thing in the world, but I've come to a new plateau of thinking.

My ex and I had a FWB relationship for a small while. we're still friends, there are just no "benefits" because we've both gone in separate directions in that matter. I still care alot about him, and that we could share that is a good thing. Not everyone is out for just a f--k, there are some people who have genuine interest in you as a person, though they may not want a RELATIONSHIP with you. It's sort of a hard concept, but you'll eventually come to understand that.


-Vampi

[Ben]

I've had friends with benefits in the past and tbh, I couldn't do it any longer. After having a serious relationship, I don't think I could go back to it all. Just my opinion hayyy. :)

[Sighmon]

I have FWB. It's basically just that next step of friendship yet still behind being in a relationship with them. I like to show affection to friends :)
Besides, it's pleasure :) The only risk is not to have too many of them or you might catch some horrid disease.. lol.. in my opinion anyway. I would never cheat on someone in a relationship with an FWB though.