cheating/cheaters

[Lou.Lou]

cheating.
fess up whos done it?
if u have why?
and whats your opinions.?
xxx

[ReneeRevoltion]

I haven't, I think it's awful. Not just because it hurts the person you were with, but it'll make other think you would do it to other people.

[Morbid_Mandi]

I have never cheated on anyone, I think it's wrong
if your going to cheat on someone then you shouldnt be with them, plain and simple
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people dont trust you if they know you have a past history of cheating

[Frankie]

I havent cheated, but i have been cheated on.
My girlfriend at the time was bi, i knew that and didnt really think anything of it.
Then her and her friend messaged me in a chatty on aim to tell me.
It sucked.

[Nathan]

I've never cheater/been cheated on as far as i'm aware,
but I know for a fact, if my current boyfriend cheated on me, i'd take him back without a second thought. I hate the fact i'm weak, but yeah...

[Morbid_Mandi]

I've never cheater/been cheated on as far as i'm aware,
but I know for a fact, if my current boyfriend cheated on me, i'd take him back without a second thought. I hate the fact i'm weak, but yeah...
well if you love someone it's hard to not take them back if they do cheat on you
but if he did it twice
I think I would be like
aaapsht no

:]

[Nathan]

Yeah :p
I dont mean i'd take him back just if he did it in anyway.
I mean like if he did it and then regretted it or whetever,
but obviously, if he meant it.. there'd be no chance

[ReneeRevoltion]

Yeah :p
I dont mean i'd take him back just if he did it in anyway.
I mean like if he did it and then regretted it or whetever,
but obviously, if he meant it.. there'd be no chance

Thats how I see the situation.
It's like three strike only for me it's two.
Cheat once and regret it-I'll take you back
Cheat and don't regret it-you dont have a chance
Cheat after the first time-you're done

[Nathan]

Yeah,
It wouldnt be the same for other people,
but everything feels so right with this guy, so i'd give him the benefit of the doubt in the right situation.

But cheating is never ok... I was born from an affair (I was actually planned too) and i've felt the consequences of cheating, seeing my dad like twice a year, sometimes I wont see him for years. He still psots me birthday/christmas cards, but yeah, it's not the same.

[Morbid_Mandi]

yeah that really sucks
and that is what I meant
lol


:]

[System Malfunction]

I have been called a cheater, but I never really consider myself "Going out" or what I call "Going steady". I know for a fact that if a girl has ever considered us partners in any way, I have not cheated on her. My points on cheating is its just plain disgusting and mean.

Edit: I have not cheated on any guys either

[ninaYAYA[x]]

If i catch someone cheating on me, there are no second chances.
I know it sounds harsh, but just read the rest first ;)

That rule applies if i CATCH someone cheating.
IF they have cheated on me, and they tell me about it, i would consider that to be something totally different. In my opinion, i think it takes alot of guts to tell somebody you've been cheating on them. A LOT.
So, if somebody cheated on me, and told me about it, and asked for forgiveness... i would take them back.
But only once.
And after like a few weeks so i could get over the shock.
And we'd have to start over from scratch.
We could never go back to were we were straight away.
But i think i could still trust someone who admitted it...

But not someone who just kept lying.
Possibly not if it had been for like a year either xD.

I could forgive someone easily for a drunken one night stand though, cause you have no judgement xD.

I caught my first boyfriend cheating.
It was his birthday.
I dumped him on the spot xD.
Then i was like oh yeah btw happy birthday xD...

I dont think i could ever cheat on someone cause my conscience plays a huge role in my life and id hate myself forever D=

But yeah.

Cheating = Nasty, like nasty Gnork from Spyro :mad:

The end =]

xxxx

[Josh]

I have never cheated, but have been cheated on many times.

I used to be forgiving and give a second chance, but now if someone cheats on me, they are out the door.

[Lou.Lou]

ive never cheated on anyone.
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[=]]

I physically couldn't do it, I'd feel so bad =[
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[Lou.Lou]

it is horrible =[
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[Morbid_Mandi]

it is horrible =[
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mhm
I dont see how people can do that to people that they love/like

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[=]]

mhm
I dont see how people can do that to people that they love/like

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They obviously don't love them, or they either have no self control =/
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[Morbid_Mandi]

;4611']They obviously don't love them, or they either have no self control =/
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yeah I think that if they do love the person they cheated on
anfter they do cheat
they regret it... alot
and then they want them back
but alot of people wont take them back
:|

[=]]

yeah I think that if they do love the person they cheated on
anfter they do cheat
they regret it... alot
and then they want them back
but alot of people wont take them back
:|

If someone cheated on me, I could never take them back no matter how much I loved them.
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[Morbid_Mandi]

;4613']If someone cheated on me, I could never take them back no matter how much I loved them.
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yeah I dont think I could either

[=]]

It's horrid =l
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[=]]

I just can't understand why people do it =/
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[Something-Witty]

I've only have one guy not cheat on me. Do I have a neon sign above my head or something?
xD

Though I did take Steve back after he did a few weeks ago, I just couldn't see any other way forward and (more fool me) I still love him.
But it was a bit rubbish.

[Amy]

I actually suck.

I cheated on a guy I was with last year 4 times, but he was a total... (insert as many rude, offensive words as possible here). I wont go into why. And He cheated on me. :/ (note - I didnt know that at the time)
But thats the only time.

I don't think I've ever been cheated on other than that.. If I have, they did a good job keeping it schmutm. I've been the person someone cheated on someone else WITH though... but that was a really, REALLY complicated scenario, but still made me feel like **** after.

Honestly... I regret all that.
But hey, at least I learnt from my mistakes. :)

[AleksandraStar]

Ok i am not going to lie,i have cheated on someone before but it was only once,and the dating thing was kind of forced,like it wasnt a dare,but with all the pressure from my friends around me,telling me to date the guy i kind of broke down,and then i cheated on him.I am 100% sure that he cheated on me the whole time that we dated.

Now if i know that i like someone while i am dating someone,i would rather first break up with that person rather than hurt them more,by cheating on them.Plus if i actually feel like i like someone else there is no reason to stay with the person i am with now.Right??

[=]]

I seriousley couldn't look them in the face if someone did it to me =[
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[Rach]

I've never cheated on anyone and actually fell out with a friend due to her cheating on her boyfriend. Twice. For a quick fumble based solely on the aesthetic. The reason I can't stand cheating: my parents separated when I was about 13, divorced when I was 15 and my Dad married the woman he cheated on my Mum with when I was 16. I have Daddy issues that are long and complicated.

Then again, I have been in an "open relationship" that was an utter joke and practically cheating anyway. The girl I was with was seeing another guy. He supposedly knew she was seeing other people but she never mentioned me or told him I was even a girl. She was (still is) in the closest so no-one knew anyway. So, basically, I was used and manipulated so she could have fun and cheat on her boyfriend she barely saw. Think it's understandable why I detest cheating with that kind of track record.
In my mind everyone has the choice and there's no need to cheat, if you care about someone enough to want to be with them over someone else then there should be enough control there to wait until you're single again.

[Josh]

People cheat either cos they arent happy or just wanna be damn right greedy!

I saw the guy who cheated on me, and boy did I give him some dirty look. The mood I was in, it could of got worse.

[Jamie]

I've been cheated with, if that makes sense basically i got with someone who had a boyfriend.

But! I didnt know at the time, when i found out i felt well bad and i made them tell their boyfriend.

[Emmie]

I got cheated on by 2 of my exes.
I don't really talk to them anymore, but it was horrible. I felt really useless I guess.
I'd never cheat on anyone, it's too mean, it's not right and it upsets people :(

[AleksandraStar]

knowing my life,i should know what cheating does to people.My dad started cheating on my mom when i was 4 and well i knew all the women,i called them "aunty" i know pretty sad,but after 13 years i still remember them,and one of them is like my second mom right now even if i dont see her alot.But i know that she deserves more than my dad so i dont really blame her.

And like Jamie said ive been cheated with too.It feels kind of bad when you find out,cause you know that you are hurting someone.Not the greatest feeling in the world

[=]]

I've been cheated with, if that makes sense basically i got with someone who had a boyfriend.

But! I didnt know at the time, when i found out i felt well bad and i made them tell their boyfriend.

I'd feel bad for weeks if I did that -[
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[Something-Witty]

;5385']I'd feel bad for weeks if I did that -[
xYeah, it's the suck.
Happened to me once...I hated it.

[StalkersAnonymous]

Okay so Ill tell the truth...
Ive cheated on a few guys...I dont have an excuse. I was stupid and totally naive.
But yeah Ive been cheated on too..it hurts alot and I completely regret ever putting anybody through that pain. =\
My opinion on it now is that there is no excuse for cheating on somebody no matter the situation or the consequences. It is wrong, and immoral...it does nobody justice and in the end usually somebodys heart is broken.

[AleksandraStar]

i dont think that i will ever be able to cheat on anyone again.Its wrong and i would hate to hurt someone i love.

[Vampi]

I've never cheated but I'm not going to say I wouldn't EVER.

Things happen, people have feelings for others, and make mistakes...or not mistakes, sometimes CHOICES. I think it all depends on where a person is emotionally at the time.

I've been cheated on. It was horrible.
never forgot, never.
still suffering, actually:/

-AHV

love is a risky business...people rarely win in love.

cherish EVERYTHING you experience, as it leads you to living your life more fully and more satisfyingly:]

[blaqk_eyed]

Things happen, people have feelings for others, and make mistakes...or not mistakes, sometimes CHOICES. I think it all depends on where a person is emotionally at the time.


Wonderfully put (: I'd wouldn't cheat, my sister was cheated on and I couldn't bring myself to do that to anyone. I think that we make a choice, even deep down, subconsciously, we do it. There is always a moment where we say yes or we say no.

[Lou.Lou]

it is wrong =[
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[finalcloudwalker]

i think cheating is really wrong. u should never cheat on a person. the point of a relationship is to be with that person, is it not? u should cherish the person ur with and if they want to be sexual as well than good for u. if not then that is something u should respect not just go and cheat on them with another person. i heard of guys cheating on girls more than girls cheat on guys. idk about u but i think that is total bull. my friend who is a girl cheats on every boyfriend she has. Another friend thinks he is a so called "playa" cuz he has friends with benifits at the same time as he dates. i think it is so screwed up that anyone will backstabb someone like that when they give u their love n their heart to u only to be stabbed in the heart. i got alot to say but so much not needed to be said but i do have a strong opinion on this topic.