Long distance relationships

[Josh]

Should you lose out on love because of distance?

What are your views on this?

[_Davey]

Falling in love with someone who's far away is heart breaking. It can work though, if you are willing to make massive sacrifices. I was going to move to Canada to go to university for the guy I fell for. Spent over a thousand pounds to visit and stuff. It didn't work out in the end but I know it could have. And I still love the guy so, I think love really can conquer all. Just have to have the guts I guess.

[Jaymee-Marie]

agree with davey. if you love each other then distance shouldnt matter. i worte a poem on long distance realtionships.

[Josh]

I hope this guy changes his mind, I adore him!

[AleksandraStar]

i actually believe that long distance relationships can work.If both people try hard enought.I know that mine long distance relationship never worked,but maybe that will change.I would never say that it wouldnt work for other people just because it didnt work for me.Thing can become hard,because one side having problems can come to the couple not talking for a while.But in the end,any kind of relatioship can work

[StalkersAnonymous]

Sometimes it works out ...although most of the time it doesnt
So I would say that ...if you can help it at all dont fall in love with somebody whos long distance
If you are falling in love then run...unless you are completely willing to die for this person or to get heartbroken because of the distance.

[XDanielleX]

The one long-distance relationship I had didn't work out. But then again, I didn't feel too strongly for the person. If you're in love with them then it should work out. My best friend lives seven hours away and it can get hard (since she's so bad on the phone! Honestly, she's like a male on the thing) but we always catch up when we can.
Good luck!

[Amy]

I've done nothing but long distance relationships. No idea why. Its some kind of curse, but I get by.
If you wanna be with that person enough, its worth it.
You know its not always going to be like that, so its a case of being patient. :)

[Jaymee-Marie]

My ex boyfriend was in the army, that was hard because when i needed him he wasn't there, when i wanted a cuddle he wasn't there. my current boyfriend went to spain for a month and when he was there i missed him so much but i knew he was coming back so it made things easier. i wouldn't do long distance, just because i'd miss the physical side like hugs and kisses

[Josh]

Firstly thanks for all your replies.

I think I am gonna do all I can to be with this guy, he is sweet as, and is only an hour away from me. I just really really like him and he likes me too, so someone has to give in.

Hoepfully ill get him.

[Amy]

An hour is nothing.
The guy i was with last year took 3 hours to get to by bus.
Dave, who I'm seeing now, lived a 40 minute drive away.

Its worth the fight. :)

[Nathan]

An hour isnt much, nope
It takes me that to get to college :[

If you both work hard at it and 100% want it, it'll work.

[Ivan]

i think its when its like someone lives in USA and you live in UK...that kinda distance stretches your limits abit for long distant relationships...but if its like what Amz said and 1hours, thats ok i suppose.

[Josh]

Well he dont seem bothered now, so I guess I am just gonna hit the nail on the head. Im upset, as I do really like him.

[Epidemic.]

I don't think you should. I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and weve been together for a year and five months. Some people think that they won't last, but I personally know that they can. Love is love, no matter what.

[Vampi]

I'm in a LD relationship right now, actually.
It's early days, but it's good.

I've done LD before, and none of them have worked for me. The difference with this one is he's in the same GENERAL area as I am, I'd just have to travel a bit of a ways to see him. The others were STATES away, moreso for one.

It all depends on how much you're willing to give and take.

-Vampi

[Richard]

I, personally, have never seen a l/d relationship thats actually worked out; I just don't really think they can?

Saying that my sister is going out with some girl from America :0
she has two kids aswell (:

[Josh]

Richard, are they still together and do they see each other much?

Just to let you all know, the guy was just blowing smoke, he was leading me on the whole time.

So yea I aint with him no more.